|Kids' Opinion on I Can Handle Difficult People|
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| Someone bullies me on the school bus. I can't take it. What should I do? Ignore and fight? Tell a teacher?? Dave|
That happened to me. i told my teacher and it got better.
I would go to the teacher you have. Let them know. they need to be aware of it. You can try first just to ignore it and let the person know by ignoring them, that it doesn't bother you.
| I am angry. some kid in school keeps teasing me. I tried to ignore it but he still does it. I want advice. I don't want to go yet to the teacher and seem like a snitch. Any ideas? Paris|
| I am upset. This girl in school is spreading rumors about me. They are so untrue. I am doing better in school then her, and wonder if that is why? I don't know what to do? Should I go up to her and tell her off or go to a teacher? Dara|
| I am so upset. The girls where I am are so cliquey. I try to be nice but it doesn't help. What can I do??|
Ignore them. Girls tend to be jealous. Hold your head up and high and develop your talents. Justin Bieber was bullied and look where he is now.
I am being bullied online. Girls are saying mean things about me. It really bothers me. What should I do?
Don't let it bother you. Ingnore them.
| I have had trouble with bullies(mean girls) in the past. They made fun of me in everyway. For a long time , I showed them it bothered me and it got worse. When I started to stick my nose up at them and show them I didn't hear them and was not affected by them they stopped. Don't let them or anyone destroy your sense of self. Hold your head up high and believe in yourself and your abilities and you will show a confidence that no one can tear down. Try it and see!!|
When I don't react right away with anger, I find things work out better with difficult people. If I reat in an angry way to their anger, it just gets much worse. Dara
|what do you do if this person won't leave you alone?, how do you resolve the problem?,and what if this person causes you to have troubles like sleeping or staying focused?|
Try ignoring this girl and the girls she gets to help her. People hate to be ignored. Show that it doesn't bother you, no matter how hard it is. Imagine her collecting garbage when she gets older. In the end , she will get what is coming to her. I know, because it happened to me long ago. If ignoring her for awhile doesn't help , tell the guidance counselor in school. They are trained to deal with people like this.
Thanks, but I did and she just went off and got all kinds of girls to pick on me.
If this person is in school, change your seat as soon as possible. You must look out for yourself, if this person is disturbing your focus. If you don't speak up for yourself who will speak up for you ? If you are afraid to change your seat , tell the person it is bothering you and ask them nicely to stop or else you will have your seat changed. It they don't stop , then change!