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Turn it off and Chill posted by UNKNOWN
Posted on Sat Mar 25, 2006 15:08:14
I read an interesting Time article in this month's issue. It talks about the young generation wired into every gadget and doing homework at the same time. They can be instant messaging,using an IPOD and doing homework all at once. The article researched studies that said it is impossible even for the young to do well their work while doing all the other stuff. The brain gets overload. Its almost an addiction all this electronics. Gone it seems are the days when kids sat down for a quiet meal ,talked with their parents (while not doing MySpace or instant messaging) and enjoyed the outside. They even don't want to talk on the phone. My daughter missed a day of high school and would only get her work if her friend was on instant messaging. What happened to going out and meeting people ? Now you have MySpace to meet new people. Some children are so absorbed in the instant messaging they can't get off it to talk to their parents. I won't tolerate that . If I have something to tell my teen I make her turn it off while I am there. I make time with her away from the electronics. We need to reconnect with our children and teach them the importance of personal contact." "Progress" is not always the best thing. We need to do what we feel as parents is the right thing. Make a point to make a difference. Encourage your child to turn off the electronics for a day and reconnect with the family. There are choices everyone can make for the best. Go make a difference in your children's life.

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Top Priority Should Be Self-Esteem posted by UNKNOWN
Posted on Tue Mar 21, 2006 10:49:46
The top priority among parents and educators should be building up the self-esteem of the children. Unfortunately, we see an emphasis more on the academic performance of children in school and on the standardized tests. This concentration on grades has contributed to more stress and acting out behavior in children. According to a Wall Street Journal Online/Harris Interactive poll kids' mental disorders are on the rise.Why is having high self-esteem necessary for the child you might ask? Children who are more self-confident do better in school,are less of a discipline problem,are healthier and can handle bullies better. What can we do as parents to help our children achieve higher self-esteem? One very important thing we can do is to encourage them to develop a talent they have, wheter it be a sport or an intellectual hobby. Discovering a talent will help children feel success which will help them feel good and lead the way to other successes. Their added confidence will give them the confidence to face up to a bully by being strong or just ignoring them. They will feel happier and better able to set other goals in their life. Help them to find the time ,even fifteen minutes to develop a talent. Cut down on the online games,video and T.V. It will pay off.

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Make the Choice posted by UNKNOWN
Posted on Mon Mar 20, 2006 17:23:59
Make the choice today for the whole week to do something that relaxes you for twenty minutes each day. It is an individualized thing. For me ,taking a long walk or going to the gym to work out is so relaxing. Taking a long, hot bath helps at the end of the day ,too. We need to take care of ourselves because you , the parent is so important for your family. Another thing you can do for yourself and your child is to drop one of the many activities that they do . Instead, go for a walk with your child or play a board game with them.Let them go out and just plain play. In the sixties the first thing I did after school was get in play clothes and play outside for thirty minutes before doing homework. Now, kids tune into instant messaging,video games(which tend to be violent) and computer games. All of those activities are sedentary. Try turning off the electronics such as the set, video games ,cell phone,pager and instant messenger for a day . Read a book,exercise and talk with the family instead. Just by doing some of the above you will see you will feel much better and less stressed.

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